My biological didn't bother

Dear Dad

Dear Dad  or really what should I call you??? 

No really tell me.. What should I call you.. See I know your name is George lol (what a corny name!)  I've even called you "just a sperm donor" but that doesn't ease my pain.

You see one of my only memories of you.. Is you hitting my mom full blown straight to her face as tho she were a man! Telling her she had no place to listen on that call you just made to your mistress. That same mistress that you had another child with! Fuck we found out. thru MySpace that we had the same name!!!! Then found out that we even had the same blood running they our veins!!!

She contacted me thru a msg one summer saying "hey sis smiley face"

All this time I thought it was me and George Jr (what a corny name)

I never thought there was anybody else experiencing this pain. 

She said "I'm the love child.. Pleasure to meet you" 

So yo come to find out George has fathered 5!!! 

I used to be mad and really hate you now when I pray.. I pray God don't take you.. And to heal my hurt.... See I've always had that inner lil girl who's wanted to make her Daddy proud Which is weird cuz I really don't know if I'd even really like you? It's crazy cause I'm a  lil like you which Is why I never liked myself till maybe like 2003?

I hated you and inturn really hated me..all this shit was actually pre destined for me?!?!

They say in order to move forward past your hurt. You have to forgive. Forgetting that's another story. I've learned to truly forgive because of you. Thanks! I would be lying if I said I have or even will forget. Ive let go. Ive let God and ive forgiven. Besides YOU..this has only made me stronger only because my biological didn't bother. 

Now in no way am I bashing you, I'm only stating the facts and telling my story. 

Hurt comes with the healing..

The Three C's

In a recent conversation about giving "FaceTime" (oral sex)male or female. A group of us got to talking.. We talked about how "spitters were quitters" which my girl Janel MissBlondecurls Williams (missblondecurls.blogspot.com)will be giving her take on.

My three C's

Care for it-Men was your balls! FLAT OUT!!! There's nothing worse then us going down on you and we get to the twins an we find lint or something down there! Or its smells like soap and water  havent touch that part of your body in weeks!!WTF!!!! Lol 

Ladies- Shave!!! Flat out!!!! Survey says  men like it bald BUT if your going keep some hair down there (to each it's own) make sure it's tirmed up for good ness sake! Nobody wants your hair stuck in their teeth!!! Gross!!! Keep your garden cut low and tirmed nicely.  Good hygiene can make or break a sexual experience. Make them walk away saying Damn that was good and not Damn that was gross!!!!!

Conquer it-DON'T BE LAZY!!!!! Put in that work! Give him or her a reason to want you to touch their love below again and again if only for that reason alone! Moan, groan, talk shit! Stroke that ego!!! Just as good as this feels to you I love sucking it! Guys LOVE IT!!! Men you have to do the same now.. Moan.. Groan look up at us OH cause were looking at you! Lol tell me how good my pussy taste to you.

Crave it- I think the most important one! You should want to please him/her. Get on your knees and do it! FOR NO REASON!!!!!! Blow their mind. Right before work when they getting ready, (SO MUCH FUN) they'll be rushing home for round #2

There should always be that animal attraction for your partner that makes you want them at the drop of a dime. Even when their not in the mood... Shit I am so give it up big daddy! LOL

At the end if the day, we all want to feel wanted emotionally and definitely sexually. Don't fake it! If something's wrong adjust it, if it can't be fixed well then that's for you to decide to move on or not. Living by the three C's will have you curling toes...making babies..making memories and most importantly having fun and a good healthily sexual experience.