Going HARD

So I seen one of those very cute picture quotes. I should have saved it and sent it to my self like I do all the others on FB!

But anyways it said "A man will go HARD for something he REALLY WANTS..and if he's NOT going HARD for you then well.."
Granted I don't believe I am quoting verbatim but I'm sure you get the point.

Men this is NOT an attack against you in anyway!

If you sit back and think about this, its true in many ways in life period. In life we ride..go hard.. on something we want. Whether it be a woman...man..job..that car..house! I'll be honest just a couple weeks ago it was this hot leather coat  I just had to have! LOL!!!

Here's the point: what's your benefit of all this going to be?if anything??...Evaluate! What will the end result be???
Just time wasted that you can't get back?

Go hard for someone who's going to go hard for you! They say relationships should be 50/50. Be real sometimes its going be that 60/40!!!  May not be fair but its what's real! There's usually someone giving a lil more in a relationship. This can be okay but again if your end result is a good healthy relationship..then don't try to fix something that's really NOT BROKEN.

To chase something just for the challenge will leave you looking around like "well that was fun" after the fact. Then you bored IF that's your only reason. Chase him or her because you like them and for something other then "she's a stallion!" Or cause"he can get it..all of it!" Don't be so shallow folks. Make sure that leather coat is going to last you a couple seasons and not just be woren to the next "Day Party" then sit in your closet and collect dust. That car should have low miles..a good warranty...and it can fit all your bae bae's kids.

Your outcome should produce sometype of income! And it won't be hard to see this either. If its hard to see..sit down and let's go back and evaluate. Theres NOTHING wrong with self evaluation. How times do you think that 2012 Charger was elvaluated before it was released???

Definitely go hard or go home! for something thats well worth it. But do your research in anything you go after!

Faith

Where to begin...
I met  with a life coach to find out that I may not be that screwed up in the head like I thought I was lol. At least when it came to realtionships and how I dealt about self. The one thing we touched on that only made me think more is where I was at currently in life.

This conversation intensified the feelings that I have... that certain things I feel I should already have in place and together by now in my life aren't yet.I'm older I should be more responsible right??? I should have certain things together by now. The bills..a house...man...children...career.Well not quite. I'm aware certain life circumstances happened that were out of my control. (yes I have control issues) I can look back and say that (sometimes)I did a good job off pushing thru these storms and yet holding on to my faith that at the end of the day my God was not going to bring this far to leave me.

Until the day I read this devotional. These four words changed my perspective. "Be strong and courageous"
I started to read this devotional like "yea yea Moses...Joshua..bla bla"
Sad..but true story. Something made me read it again but this time I related this story to my life. My own story and how God was speaking to me at this VERY MOMENT! GIVE UP THE REINS!!!!

Let me rewind a bit the devotional was based off Joshua 1:9 Esv
Have I not commanded you? be strong and courageous. Do not frightened and be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.
Moses had spent forty years leading but it was his time to give up the reins to a new leader which was Joshua.

It was apparent to me I was Moses and I have done my fair share of leading. It was time for me to let go of my control and let God have his way and take the reins in my life. Too many times things have happened and I'm like "why did this happen?" Examining my every decision thinking I could have maybe did something differently.

Everything that has or hasn't happened is because he wanted it to. Behind all my pain there is a purpose. I may not know it or see it yet but there is. He's calling me to be a woman of faith. I can no longer try to control my life I have to let his will be done and pray that I can be strong enough to face what may be ugly what I may not like or something that may even hurt, and even courageous for the the things that may not make sense. For the courage and strength to hold on when I'm very ready to just give up.

I never understood as a teenager how will I hear Gods voice. Well prime example. He heard my cry (literally) and answered. Thank Lord and Roni Lynn for being obedient and sending it to me :)