So I seen one of those very cute picture quotes. I should have saved it and sent it to my self like I do all the others on FB!
But anyways it said "A man will go HARD for something he REALLY WANTS..and if he's NOT going HARD for you then well.."
Granted I don't believe I am quoting verbatim but I'm sure you get the point.
Men this is NOT an attack against you in anyway!
If you sit back and think about this, its true in many ways in life period. In life we ride..go hard.. on something we want. Whether it be a woman...man..job..that car..house! I'll be honest just a couple weeks ago it was this hot leather coat I just had to have! LOL!!!
Here's the point: what's your benefit of all this going to be?if anything??...Evaluate! What will the end result be???
Just time wasted that you can't get back?
Go hard for someone who's going to go hard for you! They say relationships should be 50/50. Be real sometimes its going be that 60/40!!! May not be fair but its what's real! There's usually someone giving a lil more in a relationship. This can be okay but again if your end result is a good healthy relationship..then don't try to fix something that's really NOT BROKEN.
To chase something just for the challenge will leave you looking around like "well that was fun" after the fact. Then you bored IF that's your only reason. Chase him or her because you like them and for something other then "she's a stallion!" Or cause"he can get it..all of it!" Don't be so shallow folks. Make sure that leather coat is going to last you a couple seasons and not just be woren to the next "Day Party" then sit in your closet and collect dust. That car should have low miles..a good warranty...and it can fit all your bae bae's kids.
Your outcome should produce sometype of income! And it won't be hard to see this either. If its hard to see..sit down and let's go back and evaluate. Theres NOTHING wrong with self evaluation. How times do you think that 2012 Charger was elvaluated before it was released???
Definitely go hard or go home! for something thats well worth it. But do your research in anything you go after!