Lovvvvvvvveeeeeeeee

Love...
LOL!!! So a FB status the other day has inspired this. This guy replies to my friends status as to what LOVE is.. And it made me think.... ALOT!

Wtf is love???? The common answer would be the bible verse.
I used to say "love is pain" and sometimes it really is..
But love is un describable!!!!
To a teenager it's staying up till 3am on the phone not wanting to hang up. "No you hang up" "no you hang up" calling the time an weather just to make sure the phone doesn't ring (so you don't get caught by your parents) LOL
But this guy said love is not being apart.. But enduring the downs to stand up together!!! Don't quote me.. His own words are attached lol
When I read his words it hit me!!! This makes sense. Who can say they love someone that they haven't "been thru it with" your childhood friend.. Your momma .. Your own child cause I'm sure them nine months was something to talk about for sure!!!!! But that in and out of jail ex if yours... Ups n downs!!!!! Wooooo
I used to tell me ex when we good baby we GREAT!!!! But when it's bad it's ALLL BAD!!!!! But at the end if the day that's why we loved eachother so much because we both made the decision to ride it out thru ALOT!

And all tho we want to show we're that "ride or die" the biggest lesson I've learned "is be true to self first" NOONE will ever love you better then you can love yourself!!!
#PERIOD I should pass the collection plate on that note!!!! Lol but real talk a person can only take so much know when it's time to let go!!!!!!
This isn't just for my ladies some of my fellas too!!! Ya like to hold on too! Trying to turn hoes into house wives and some of the ratchet into rich an famous!!!!
Ladies ... Well I won't even start on us!!! We were made to love and hold a mutha f$&ker down during hard times!!!!
But again baby girl look within inside your self an know when it's time to try harder or press forward towards something better.

Don't get me wrong I'm still that ride or die but I refuse to die for ANYBODY AND RIDE WITH JUST ANYBODY.. Anymore lol. Life lessons...
Experience it..Learn from it and Apply it!!!



Besos!!!!